Davetula Konsult

The late Chief MKO Abiola The ‘dawn’ is still far away ‘It has been a long night. But the dawn is (NOT) here’ I write to inform you that June 12 has evolved. “From a commemoration observed by scattered bands of devotees, members of the Abiola family, and human rights activists, confined mainly to the South-West,” as Ayo Olukotun carefully worded it, “June 12 has now mutated into a national observance and symbol of nationhood in the same class with other national holidays, totems and identity markers of statehood.” You already know that you have been awarded the highest national honour the Nigerian state could give. It should be a proud moment. Fists should be up in the air, but they are not. We mark the day with mixed feelings even as we remember the ideals you stood for. With deep discomfiture I bring to your notice that Nigeria today is the exact opposite of what you envisioned. You had a vision for this country and you communicated that vision so clearly. You wanted

Before you shyke the shunamite I am not a relationship coach but me I Sure know that you shouldn't marry for others but yourself. Don't marry for society,don't marry for your family,don't marry for your friends,don't marry for your pastor,don't marry for your church and don't marry for your village people Marry for yourself. Marry in the Lord(a believer with the same doctrinal persuasion), but marry who you like and who likes you Marry who you like and who likes you. Attraction is very important o. I know why I'm saying this o! Marry someone who you can reason together with at the same level Marry someone who is intelligent if you don't want your kids to be olodo Simple biology. Its not rocket science! Marry the kind of flesh you like. If you like a fair-mami-water-shunamite, please marry one. If you like a dark-skinned-queen-of-the-coast-shunamite please go for it If you like a fat Shunamite, please don't let anybody

DIARY OF A SCARLET WOMAN EPISODE 13 I cried my eyes out when I got that text from Stanley. It’s true we hadn't been in talking terms since I returned to Enugu and I had been ignoring his calls and BBM messages. I needed some time to cool off and forget that ugly incident.  A lot had happened in my life ever since I met him, so I wanted to take a break, but not this; break up? After everything I had been through because of him? I called nma on the phone to complain to her and begged her to talk to Andrew to intercede on my behalf. I still loved Stanley. He was my first love and in as much I was angry at him, I couldn’t stop loving him. I also tried to reach Stanley but all his phone lines were switched off.  I cried my eyes out that day and slept off. I refused eating and my attitude at home sulked.  My grandma was out of town, I am sure she would have seen through me.  I didn’t deserve all these, I wanted him to be patient with me, to stand by me throughout this trying

DIARY OF SCARLET WOMAN EPISODE 12: “I don’t think I can continue this relationship anymore. I pray you find someone better…” that was the text I got from Stanley barely 3weeks after I had an abortion.  Well let me rewind a little bit... After our weekend/holiday groove, we returned to school via flight on the Tuesday. It was an afternoon flight. Everything went on well until 4weeks later when I missed my monthly visitor.  I panicked.  I had been tutored by my midwife granny to always mark my menstrual cycle dates accurately. I was perturbed after 4days from my due date, I still hadn't seen it. I confided in my roommate, nma, about my suspicion and fear. We agreed to get a pregnancy test strip to confirm. My fears were finally confirmed…double line on the 1st, 2nd and 3rd test-strip. I fell in nma’s arms crying. Annie later came around and I informed her of my predicament. She felt pity for me. “But Sharon why? Didn’t you take porstinor-2 or any drug after you guys h

DIARY OF A SCARLET WOMAN EPISODE 11: I prepared boiled yam and egg sauce for everyone. We were enjoying the meal when Stanley walked in. it was past 8pm. “Hello peeps” he greeted everyone and came close to me. “Hi darling. Did you miss me?” he asked while handing me a gift bag.  I clearly wasn’t interested in his pleasantries. I stood up and made my way to the kitchen. He followed suit. He held me from behind as soon as we got into the kitchen. “I am sorry dear. I was with some of my friends. I went to hang out with them and I didn’t hear my phone ring because of the loud noise at the lounge where we sat. I should have informed you earlier and I am sorry.” He finally said now facing me and looking at my moody face. He tried to tickle me and flattered me with some sweet names. I finally caved in. At least he has apologized and with a gift. I opened the bag and I saw a lovely wristwatch. It was beautiful. I hugged him and planted a soft kiss on his lips. “I hope you love it?”

DIARY OF A SCARLET WOMAN EPISODE 10 I woke up with a banging headache.  I could feel my brains pounding. Hangover! I struggled to get out of bed.  I opened my eyes and it was already past 11am.  Damn!  I must have slept my brains out...who wouldn't? After sleeping by almost 5am a night before.  I was still trying to grasp the reality of the day when I heard a knock on the door. I was too weak to ask who it was but after a few seconds, the door was opened.  It was Stanley, walking in with a tray of invisible items.  I couldn't see the contents from where I was lying and i couldn't even open my eyes clearly. "Good morning my angel" he greeted. "I hope you slept well?" He continued. I just simply nodded in affirmation.  He smiled and came close to the bed and sat down. He brought a hot sweet smelling cup of tea and toast bread and some baked beans on the side. He looked at me and smiled.  "Baby I made this for you. I am sure y