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Society: Your Environment Affects You

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I grew up in Lagos, I always consoled myself that my street was better than Ajegunle. Actually, it is. I grew up in the ghetto. I ain't from a rich family,twenty something years ago, it was one of the most beautiful places in Lagos, my compound was neat and had flowers all over, but as years passed, things changed. The once tarred road changed to the most dreaded road like the road at Aba (if you have been to Aba, you will understand ). There in the ghetto, I saw things but I wasn't allowed to say them. I could only see these things and imagine them. Now I can write them. I saw fathers sleep with their daughters because they were obsessed with their daughters and got jealous at the thought of seeing a male with their daughters. I saw wives sleep with other men to provide for the family and also make it seem their husbands are responsible. I saw kids that were neglected by their parents join bad gangs. I saw boys as young as 10years old smoking indian hemps, "igbo...

Society: What's Your Reason For Marriage Ladies?

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I've only attended just one wedding in my life. I don't like attending weddings. I have phobia for it. I attended one last year, she's a nice person, for reasons best known to her she wanted me to grace her wedding. Thinking of it, maybe because I was the wedding planner. Anyways, she spent money because her husband to be THEN (husband NOW) is a politician. She had about 10bridals train, 10 flower girls and 10 pin up girls. All the whatever they wore on their body that day was sponsored by her. She paid for their hair, bought the brazilian weavons, paid for the clothes, shoes, earrings and every thing. Very expensive wedding it was. Instead of giving books, fans as souvenirs, she gave out pots, expensive hand bags, shoes, gas cookers etc. You go fear wedding now. She was 6months pregnant when she got married. She wore her white gown still, and looked angelic. The movers and shakers of the society also graced her wedding but something was odd, I saw it and...

Society : Psychopaths!

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YOU MIGHT GET ANGRY, ermmm, DO I CARE? NO!!! Years back when I was still whisked by love, I met this fine young man. He had a top spot in an oil company, very intelligent, handsome too and was a gentle man. He was light skinned, had the looks of Michael Ealy (have you seen the movie for colored girls? He's that troubled dude that threw his 2children from that 4storey building? He's also that chef in Think Like a Man) remember him now? Good! He had a combination of Micheal Ealy, Terrence J and Chad Murray (Oh Lort, I just died so much cuteness in one person ) Well, maybe I'm exaggerating, but he was such a fine young man. So we liked each other, he always called me and I did call too. I noticed anytime we had any misunderstanding, he would threaten to kill himself, at first, I thought it was normal lines. But anytime there was a misunderstanding or an argument, he would threaten to kill himself. I was scared as I won't want to be responsible for someo...

Society : Do males gossip?

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It's been proven that males are "amebos" than females, not withstanding, Every lady needs a mature man in her life, not for dating, not for marriage, not even for sex, but someone she can talk to and be free with. I have a friend, he's a mature man, we have been friends for 2years now but it's like we have known each other for years. No one knows my husband except 2 people, no one knows my boyfriend except 2 people, no one knows who my best friends are except 2 people, and these 2 people no one knows who they are. I don't know what the future holds for me, but I know I won't have a snitch as a friend.. Be careful of bitter people, with their bitter lives, that run or speak ill or say things about others to make themselves feel good. Be careful of people that are angered about life. They will never encourage you, all they do is discourage you and then blame the witches in their village for the problem they are facing. According to Farida...

News: Cultists kill mate at girlfriend's birthday party

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Cultists kill mate at girlfriend's birthday party in Ondo Bolaji, a 21-year-old student in Ondo, headquarters of Ondo West Local Government Area of Ondo State met his end when he least expected. He was killed at a birthday party he organised for his girlfriend by suspected cultists. According to the Sun ,a clash between two rival cult groups during the ceremony claimed the life of the host, alleged to be a member of one of the cult groups in the town. The deceased who was said to have come from a wealthy family organised the bash for his girlfriend unaware that members of the rival cult group would grace the ceremony with his friends who were members of another cult group operating in the town. Sources said a friend introduced the deceased to a leader of Eiye Confraternity who after a minor argument used a dangerous weapon to kill him in the presence of his girlfriend and other guests. This led to serious clash between the two rival cult groups and brought an abrupt end t...

A Letter To My Children About Fifty Shades Of Grey

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My Precious Children, Tonight, I succumbed to peer pressure (exactly what I caution you NEVER to do) and went with a bunch of girlfriends to see Fifty Shades of Grey. I ignored the little voice in my head that implored me to just say “no!” because, after all, it’s just a silly movie, right? Well, I wish I had done as I always tell you to do and given that voice credit because it was right. The thing is, I’m also kind of glad I didn’t because now I have these words for you. One day, in the not very distant future, I’m going to blink and gasp as I realise you’re suddenly old enough to see movies like Fifty Shades of Grey, yourselves. Of course, you or your friends may even decide that curiosity wins and risk sneaking a peek even earlier than that. Either way, I have to accept the hard fact that your innocent eyes and your uncorrupted minds are going to see this drivel sooner or later. I am writing this so that when that day comes...

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