Davetula Konsult

Sofola, There’s no limit to how low some women will sink to satisfy their raging libido! Derin, a former colleague and a friend was on a well-deserved rest abroad and was looking forward to seeing the two children who currently live in their London flat. Sesan,28, is her step-son and her own son, Gbola is in his early 20s. She had hardly settled in when Gbola told her Sesan was in a hot mess that needed to be sorted out. Her precious step-son was sleeping with one of her friends! “You do remember Mariam don’t you?” Derin asked me the minute we could really talk about the event. I remember her alright. She was much younger than Derin, barely in her 40s, but had the good fortune of getting hitched to a rich widow. She seemed to have it all—two lovely children, a nice house and a much older husband who dotted on her… . Most women in her situation would have been happily singing songs of praise, but not Mariam. She wanted more out of life. A highly sensual person, she constantl...

DID it ever occur to you that when you stood at the altar and promised to love your husband ‘in sickness and in health,’ that one day you’d be forced to confront the reality of those vows? You ought to. This is life. We’re all going to get old. Some of us may suffer long-term or terminal illness or have accidents that leave us unable to look after ourselves. When accidents happen, would you be able to look after your sick spouse unconditionally? Would your husband do it for you? More to the point, would you want him to? “I’m not the kind of person who copes very well with illness or stress, “ confessed Kate. “I’ve only been married for two years. If he suffered a long-term illness now, I would probably walk away. I am young and I have my whole life ahead of me. However, if it was something short-term, I would stay and care for him. I would also do this if I was in my 50s, or 60s, and still with the same man I’m with now”, concludes the 30-year-old dentist. Eight years ago, Solap...

Candida When ‘friends with benefits’ suddenly popped on the dating scene a few years back, a lot of male and female adventurers eagerly went for it. I mean what could be more enticing? Two consenting adults meet and quickly agree to have  no-strings-attached sex until they meet suitable partners they could finally settle with. Trust Hollywood – cashing in on the popularity of the concept, the film: Friends With Benefits lit up the screans all over the world. It was an instant hit because at the end of the madness is a subtle moral that you can’t eat your cake and have it! Someone always gets hurt in the end. “Whenever I hear the term `friends with benefits’, I shudder!”, said Lara, a 36-year-old personal assistant. “Hollywood might portray it as something glamorous and empowering but I know from experience that is not always the case. Some years back, I met Sonny at college and though we weren’t that close after we left, we’d always stop for a chat if we bumped into each oth...

Canice Some guys get mind oo... . You have a girl who is always "honeying" and "darling" you with her genuine mind, With love and all she can muster. . But deep deep down inside of you, you know say you no go wan marry am. But you keep encouraging her to reject other guys wey fit fulfil her dreams. . Una get mind oo . Anyway, Most of the time too, The ladies who are in this situation always have another secret bobo somewhere wey them dey deceive say na only him them want. While the bobo will love her with all his heart and money, The babe go just dey collect the bobo money and be using it to buy gifts and food items to her guy wey no plan to marry am at all. . Finally finally, When kasala burst, the babe go dey cry when the bobo wey she love don marry another babe altogether (wey him go regret to marry later later for him life) While the bobo wey the babe dey deceive don propose to am before and she said she is not ready, and the guy cry ...

The African Archive King Jaja of Opobo (1821-1891) Born in Igboland and sold as a slave to a Bonny trader at the age of twelve, he was named Jubo Jubogha by his first master. He was later sold to Chief Alali, the head of the Opubo Annie Pepple Royal House. Called Jaja by the British, this gifted and enterprising individual eventually became one of the most powerful men in the eastern Niger Delta. The Niger Delta, where the Niger empties itself into the Gulf of Guinea in a system of intricate waterways, was the site of unique settlements called city-states. From the fifteenth to the eighteenth century, Bonny, like the other city-states, gained its wealth from the profits of the slave trade. Here, an individual could attain prestige and power through success in business and, as in the case of Jaja, a slave could work his way up to head of state. The House was a socio-political institution and was the basic unit of the city-state. In the nineteenth century—after the abolition ...

Courtesy :  Lillian Binda, OMG VOICE Nigeria, we hail thee, Our own dear native land, Though tribe and tongue may differ, In brotherhood we stand, Nigerians all are proud to serve Our sovereign Motherland. Our flag shall be a symbol That truth and justice reign, In peace or battle honour’d And this we count as gain, To hand on to our children A banner without stain. O God of all creation, Grant this our one request, Help us to build a nation Where no man is oppressed, And so with peace and plenty Nigeria may be blessed. Those were the very words Nigerians sang back in the 60’s and 70’s as our National Anthem. A time where true patriotism reigned in the blood streams of every Nigerian and orderliness was seen from afar. No one has to question twice who we were as a country and what we stood for. Conversing with our parents you could almost feel the joy and yearn for the old times and days where peace and plenty were in abundance. ...

Arsenola, If all the men you keep meeting are dogs - maybe the problem isn't the men. Maybe you're just a dog-catcher. You ever stop to think about what dogs are attracted to? Dogs are attracted to trash. So maybe you want to check the way you are presenting and packaging yourself if you don't wish to attract dogs any more. Present yourself trashy and I can guarantee that you'll attract plenty of dogs. So don't get mad when the dogs keep showing up! In other words - stop expecting dogs to act like lions! Dogs are dogs. They play in garbage, eat nasty stuff, and will hump any and every other woman's leg too. Your leg isn't special at all to a dog. It wants every leg! That's just the nature of a dog. Lions on the other hand are regal by nature. They hunt for what they want - and aren't afraid to go after the bigger game in life. Lions are also fiercely protective over their women. It's not uncommon for a lion to die attempting to protec...