Society : Your Opinions


If you are used to multiple partners as a single, be asured that you can not help it when you get married because that desire for more will always hit you, and since you were not able to defeat it during your single days, it will even be more difficult for you after you are married.
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Your weakness will continue to lure you back to the old habit even after you are married.
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Thats the reason the record of cheating in marriage is increasing on daily basis.
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Human beings are not machines.
Human beings evolve due to circumstances, places and time.
But this post?
This post takes humans to be constant.
This is wrong!
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The problem with marriage nowadays rather, is that it is fast losing value in the eyes of people.
You hear people say things like;
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"One should not change just because he or she has got married"
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What a wrong statement !!!
The truth is that, Once one gets married, he or she MUST HAVE TO CHANGE or else, the marriage would never succeed.
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Living as a single is different from living as married.
As single, you make decisions UNILATERALLY... (On your own)
But as a married someone, you will always have to ask for your spouse's opinion about most of your decisions,, failure to do that will amount to NEGLECT.
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Therefore,
That one is faithful to his partner while being single IS NOT a guarantee that he or she would remain faithful when they get married.
We have heard of women who married as virgins, wishing they could see and feel how another man's ABUNNA feels like.
I personally, know a very faithful guy who got married to his GF of many years cos he doesn't want to continue fornicating with her,
This same guy was later caught dragging another babe with one of my colleagues...
So What Are We Saying?
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I always say this and I will continue saying it;
IF YOU ACT MARRIED while YOU RE SINGLE...
YOU WILL MOST LIKELY ACT SINGLE while YOU RE MARRIED...
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My wish in life is to marry a babe that has seen it all...
*A babe that won't wet her panties immediately she sees a fain boy in one of the many functions we re gonna be attending together...
*A babe that won't be laughing sheepishly at a man's joke in her office just because he has pink lips...
*A babe that would rather take a cab home instead of joining that bigman wey no dey take eye see woman, in his car on her way home...
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And ultimately,
Once I decide to settle down, every woman I meet and every woman that meets me would not need to be told that I'm a married man who doesn't intend to compromise. (So Help Me God).
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Its all about decision...
Its all about sitting down your woman and both of you drawing a thick line for yourselves - a boundary that would demarcate your single days from your married life.
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No one can be faithful by default...
We re no machines.
Faithfulness is a decision that married couples make to and for themselves.
It is a very strong commitment.
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As a single,
If you have any adventure you wish to fulfil...
This is the right time for it.
Cos once you get married, it would be too late.
If you try to CARRY it OVER to your married days,,, Your Marriage would suffer.
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Today is Saturday,
Check the hotels in ur area...
They are filled with old men who are carrying over their courses which they failed to "pass" when they were youths.
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E Don Do... I DON TALK TOO MUCH,, hehe

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