Society : Open Discussion ; For The Ladies And Gents

Attention Please !!!
You don't believe in sex before marriage, Okay I agree, Its wrong.
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But you ask him for money to buy phone...
You ask him for money to buy recharge card..
You ask him for money for your hairdo..
He pays for all the dates you guys have..
Please, I just want to ask, What is he really gaining from you?
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As you are enjoying all his money,
Biko what is he enjoying in your life too?
Ehmmm, You see,
Every relationship serves a need.
What need are you serving in the life of this young man that spends lavishly on you, and you sef no gree give am sex, Which is bad though..
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See eh,
Do you know, some of this 'No sex' Ladies are Gold diggers too.
I said SOME oO...
They preach that sex before marriage is wrong, But chopping a man without mercy is right abi?
some of them even have guys that straff them but they come and tell you 'No sex'..
That's by the way though,
Warris my "consign"...lol
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Okay let me continue..
As a woman, You demand lavishly, You say No Sex.
No be motivation you dey motivate the guy to do better,
No be ideas on how to make money wey you carry come,
No be job connection wey you carry come,
No be him spiritual life wey you improve,
As in eh,
Your job is to squander, lavish and spend money without giving something back in return..
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Every relationship survives when there's business in it;
GIVE and TAKE!
Every relationship should solve the issues of those involved in it.
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This guy is solving Yours,
What are you solving in his life ?
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Every relationship Should add something to the lives of those involved.
The guy keeps adding, You no dey follow add something for him life?
My people say;
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"If right hand wash left hand, Left hand go wash right hand."
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In some relationships, Na only right hand dey wash left hand.
What should be done in this case?
Cut that left hand off na..
A relationship that doesn't satisfy your needs, Like you satisfy your significant other's need is SCAM!
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Biko, I didn't say Give a man sex oh!
But there are other needs in the life of a man, Satisfy those needs;
Be an encouragement,
Be an inspiration,
Be a motivation.
Improve Him than he used to be.
No Sex in a relationship is not a criteria to suck a guy up.
Inugo?
As you adhere to this, God will Bless you all.
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If to say no be this fuel scarcity eehn...
I for just send this guy one gallon of fuel for him generator. Hehe

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