Lasting Relationships: Rule 11

RULE 11: DO NOT INTIMIDATE HIM

Have you ever wondered why most ladies who are beautiful and rich find it difficult to get married? The simple is reason is that they intimidate most men who get interested in them. They may not do this consciously, but the expensive clothes they wear, expensive gadgets they use, the posh cars they drive and their looks generally intimidate men and make them inferior. Once a man begins to feel like that, he would not want to get close again. It is only a man who is also as rich as the lady that would have the courage to approach her without being intimidated.
Any single lady that is interested in walking down the aisle should avoid looking excessively flamboyant; you shouldn’t wear things that are extraordinarily expensive. These things may look beautiful and gorgeous on you but they have the wrong effect on men, especially those that are not very rich. They intimidate and scare men away. It is not wise for any single lady to drive a posh or expensive car. If your expensive dressing can intimidate a man, what do you think driving a posh car would do to him? It compels him to take to his heels.
It is not only a lady’s wealth that can intimidate a man, her academic qualification can do that also. A man with just his senior secondary school certificate may find it extremely difficult to start a relationship with a lady who has a doctorate degree. The man may be richer than the lady , but her academic qualifications may intimidate him and make him uncomfortable.
It is therefore not wise for a single lady to accumulate academic degrees when she is still single. It is better to get a husband first, and then you can aspire to any academic height in your husband’s house.