Lasting Relationships: Rule 10

RULE 10: AVOID SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

One serious mistake single ladies make these days is going to bed with a man before marriage. Most single ladies do
this because they feel it is a way of getting a man’s heart and love, but recently research conducted has shown that
this is not always true. As a matter of fact, Men prefer marrying ladies they have not slept with. According to this research, seventy percent of men who had sex with their partners ended up not marrying them, just thirty percent ended up marrying their sexual partners and majority of them were compelled to do so because their partners became pregnant. It is therefore not wise for a single lady
to go to bed with a man before marriage.
The more a single lady parts her thighs for a man, the more he looses interest in her, but the stingier she is with her thighs, the more desperate he becomes to have them.
Men do not value ladies who give them sex easily, they prefer those that are very stingy with their thighs. Ask a man to
choose between a lady that gives him sex regularly and another that denies him of it, you would be shocked at his answer. He would prefer the one that has never gone to bed with him.
Using sex as a way to tell a man that you are a good lover is not a wise idea, the reason is that sex only keeps a relationship going for sometime but it cannot sustain it.
There are however other ways to let him know you are a good lover:
1. Make him feel special by giving him much love, care and attention. Treat him like a king, he will never be in a hurry to
leave you even if you deny him of sex.
2. Pet him; men like to be treated like babies, be a mother to him and you would be surprised that he would always want
to be close to you even if you do not give him sex.
3. Lavish money on him; lavishing money on a man is one of the subtle ways of telling him that you love him.
Women do not usually lavish money on men they do not love.
4. Be submissive to him; a man is the head of the house because of his position in the house. The bible enjoins the woman who is his partner to be submissive to him. A submissive woman is a woman who is willing to obey whatever her partner says. Being submissive to a man is
another clever way of showing him that you love him.
Women would not be submissive to men they do not love and men are aware of this.