Davetula Konsult

Sofola, ONE of the biggest mistakes you can make is to put your friend up in your flat on a temporary basis, especially when your place is a bit crammed.” Bilikis was desperate for a place to stay and Ann, her childhood friend put her up. But now Ann’s ‘guest’ had been with her for nine months—instead of the three months she said she would spend. Her boyfriend of a couple of years had not only found someone else—he was getting married and Bilikis had to go. She was very weepy and desperate to find a place, that Ann grudgingly agreed to put her up long enough for her to find a decent place of her own. “I never guessed hunting for a flat could be such a nightmare,” confessed Bilikis. “Every prospective place the agent showed me was either too expensive or too pokey. It was really depressing—where could I get the money to pay for two years’ rent plus the agent’s charges on my salary?” After four months however, Ann’s patience was wearing thin. Whenever friends visited, Bilikis w...

IT’S no secret that sex in  the office is as commonplace as sex in anywhere convenient – all you need is a little bit of privacy and a lot of ingenuity. But, have you ever thought of avenging a wrong by giving yourself an earth-shattering bunk? And, in the office? When this happened to Gbemi, she swore revenge sex was the furtherest from her mind when she was dumped by her boyfriend of two years. “I was doing my youth service in a big office when John dumped me,” she said. “It was a dream office to work in and I wanted to make a good impression as I was hoping to be invited to stay permanently. But concentrating on my job was almost impossible. “I was staring on the computer, not really concentrating when the supervisor sent for me. He wasn’t that much older and he was really good looking. We had chatted a few times, but he’d never stepped out of line. ‘Are you OK?” He now asked, concerned. ‘You don’t seem to be yourself and you ignored me just a few minutes ago when ...

I have always warned that the easiest way to start an affair is with a person very close to you, be it an in-law or a friend. So, when your instinct tells you your hubby is getting too frisky with your sister, alarm bells should start clanging in your brain. Wahab is the type of man who brags he doesn’t usually look for trouble – but he’s often pushed into having affairs by women who wouldn’t leave him alone. A bit conceited, he said he recently found himself in another spot of trouble he didn’t create. Married under 10 years with two children, he told me; “I get on well with my wife and our children are adorable. But you can scarcely say the same thing for our sex life – It’s not as hot as it used to be. My wife is a nurse and often works shifts, and sometimes, we hardly see each other from one week to the next. “Then, about three months ago, her sister was kicked out of her matrimonial home for reasons I found a bit far-fetched. She had nowhere to go, so 1 agreed she could m...